(Chelan State Park 2006)
Today is the first day of the Quinn/Anne Chlarson Family Reunion AND I'M NOT THERE! I haven't missed one in 17 years! (Is that right? I'll need to check the t-shirts!)
This year it's at the Idaho side of Bear Lake. It's the first year we haven't had it in Washington State, camping in tents, cooking in dutch ovens...and I was really looking forward to the new adventure of sharing a house with my family and getting out of Dodge!
The reason I'm missing it is because when you're a mother, your kids come first. Shaila and her little family will be moving to Pamona, CA next week. Her husband, Matt, got accepted to medical school on June 7, bought a car, packed, and left the same day. Shaila is here in Moses Lake, packing and trying to get everything ready to move them to California. Thus, Hubby and I will be driving the moving truck. It's an adventure, right?
It's been a melancholy day. I called my Mom this morning and fought back tears so she wouldn't know how sad I was! All I can think about is my parents and sisters all together, laughing, teasing, cooking, and playing. But....I've been very blessed to have been able to spend all the previous years attending, unlike most of my siblings.
And that's what I have to focus on...not the negatives about what I can't do, or what I don't have, or what I'm missing out on. I'm grateful I have the relationships with my family that makes it a joy to be around them and miss them when I'm not. To have two loving parents that have stood together through deep trials. A Dad who worked himself to the bone providing for his family and showing us the value of hard work. A mother who taught her daughters homemaking skills and how to endure your trials and know there's a new day ahead. Sisters who are my VERY best friends. A brother who always looked after his little sister, and growing up was the best example I had. I always thought of him and what he would do when faced with temptations because I always knew that he would choose the right. For children who have persevered through the trials they've endured because of my choices. They're my life and joy. Grandchildren who bring me more happiness than I ever thought imaginable! An incredible husband who loves me and supports me....always! And the health to enjoy it all!
I'm so blessed!
So, one year missed...lots more to come! Have fun family! I'm looking forward to pictures! Take lots!
2 comments:
Boy, if that isn't a gang of trouble in that picture, I don't know what is.
Sorry that you have to miss it. Love the deep thoughts and rememberings♥. I really would have come up there just to crash the party! What a great tradition. I guess your brother was not going to make it this year?
Mothering-we both know you are have picked the better spot, in helping your daughter move.
On the cape..no pattern, but I could make up on and send it to you. (I just wing those things-something that I got from my grandma Wheatley.)
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